Proverbs 20

"Prepare plans by consultation, and make war by wise guidance" (v18). While our American culture emphasizes independent thinking, the scriptures encourage us to consult wise friends before decision-making. The "lips of knowledge" (v15) are more precious than silver and gold, so good counsel is extremely valuable. Talking about other people's choices is a very different thing: "do not associate with a gossip" (v19). A spirit of humility can lead us to seek help.

"Man's steps are ordained by the Lord" (v24). With prayer and thoughtful counsel, we can confidently make God-honoring choices.